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Kari Dent's avatar

I love this tribute of sorts to one of the most joyful people ever to enter public life. I always find it odd how uncomfortable people are with death and the idea of the things left behind being sold. My mother was the the business manager of a large retirement home in SC practically my whole life growing up. There was every level of care offered from independent living to hospital care. My sister and I learned early on that death was a part of life. I still have a few things that former residents gave me as a child (and I'm 61!). Things can make us smile, remember, cry, laugh, and feel all the feels. But at the end of the day, stuff is just stuff and you can't take it with you. Someone else might as well buy it and give it another life. I suppose "things" have a cycle of life and death just like people.

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Virginia Chamlee's avatar

Love this Kari!

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Catherine's avatar

Such a lovely article! So well researched and respectful. He certainly lived his life to the fullest and collected some beautiful and funky pieces… thanks for sharing this.

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Virginia Chamlee's avatar

Thank you for reading!

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Evelyn Squadrille's avatar

Thank you for sharing! I was/am a fan of Richard Simmons …I remember “Sweating to The Oldies” ♥️

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Virginia Chamlee's avatar

Such an inspiration!

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Christine S's avatar

What a beautiful tribute for a lovely man. I hope those who love him see your writing.

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Virginia Chamlee's avatar

Thank you Christine! He seemed so wonderful!

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Natalie Mills's avatar

Okay, I’m in. Why do I simultaneously hope I win and lose? (Biting nails!)

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Virginia Chamlee's avatar

Tell me what you’re after!!

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Natalie Mills's avatar

My Substack avatar provides a clue!

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Virginia Chamlee's avatar

Almost included a pic of all of them in this letter but it was getting long. Good for you; good luck!

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Natalie Mills's avatar

I’ve already been outbid, but I am excited for someone to score this! It was a fun experience.

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Virginia Chamlee's avatar

And now you are a part of history!

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Lisa Dunn's avatar

I love this story. Thanks for sharing a bit of Simmons’ life with me.

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Virginia Chamlee's avatar

He was wonderful!

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Sheila (of Ephemera)'s avatar

Aw, this was a very sweet tribute. He was part of the cultural landscape for so long!

I was thinking about Iris Apfel’s auction today, thinking how cool it would be to have something of hers. I would love my old things to be someone’s bonanza when I’m dead!

Did you bite on any of the groovy sculptures, Virginia?

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Chloe L Miles's avatar

This was wonderful! We always need more silly Simmons types in the world!

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Ainee Beland's avatar

Simmons' collection is nothing that I would want; yet, I agree with: "we leave behind a collection of who we were, tangible, physical representations of the lives we lived. The clothes we wore, the shoes we ran in, or worked in, or tripped and fell in."

Our estate sales (or, if we’re celebrities, our auctions) are like little museum exhibitions of the stuff we were made of. When we leave the earth, our estate sales and auctions are the What’s Left of our lives. I do want 'ashes to ashes', 'dust to dust'; as if I were never here, yet what to do with all the stuff before I am gone, since unsure how soon that would be...knowing, plans could be made to rid of it all so that no auction is needed.

Sorry for not making sense, I am down with depression and such issues that I can't be helped. Thanks for sharing.

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